I
have had some visitors from the Down Syndrome message board... to you I
say welcome! You have my utmost respect and good wishes. Our life with a
Down Syndrome family member was not always easy, but still great. And I
don't know if anyone has told you, but some DS folks can have wickedly
funny senses of humor. And a little bit of style, and scandal. I think
that's my brother in a nutshell.
After my
parents died, Jerry lived with us for a few years. We had to teach him
some basic living skills, because my parents really babied him. But
after a few years of teaching hygiene, bed making, and some cooking and
cleaning, he was ready for more independence and so were we.
He
moved to a group home nearby, which is a beautiful place with several
individual homes on the property. He belongs to their travel club, and
has been to the Super Bowl (twice), a Caribbean cruise, a trip to
Philadelphia, a trip to Disney World, a trip to Hawaii, and is going on a
Mexican cruise. For the first time, he has true buddies that he can
hang out with. Though I sort of feel bad that he doesn't live with us,
he is immensely happier hanging with his friends, working, and doing fun
stuff.
Labels: Down Syndrome, Family